First of all, if you don’t plan on reading this entire post read this —> waffles are much different from spaghetti. In fact, I think the only characteristic the two foods share is the insane amount of carbs.
If you remember this concept, I predict that any sort of relationship with any woman you have in your life will improve drastically. Maybe all it means is that you understand your mom better. Or your friend. Or your sister. Or any individual belonging to the female species. You do not need a survival guide. Or a book. Or a list of rules. Spaghetti must become your new favorite food. Second only to the Bread of Life. (Cheesy pun intended).
If you failed to notice, girls are really good at not giving away anything. You could be talking to her about one thought while she’s thinking through a million–at the exact same time. This is called multi-thinking. To play it safe, assume that if you haven’t thought it, she’s thinking it.
Let’s create a scenario to work with. You’ve just met this girl? You start the small talk etc. Now imagine this, she’s already thinking about whether you’ll be simply friends, or if there are deeper intentions. She’s thinking of the possibility of a first date. Here’s a glimpse at the female brain:
“Does he like me?” “Is he going to ask me out?” If so, “when?” “Where will he take me?” “What will I wear?” “How tall is he?” “Can I wear heels?” “Has he dated another girl? If so, “who?”Is he still dating her?” If not, “why?” “Does he have certain standards, boundaries, and expectations?” “What is he passionate about?”
The list goes on and on and on and on and on.
She’s thinking of every detail.
NOW, that was an example of multi-thinking. I hope I didn’t scare you. I’m only being realistic. Another thing, this IS NOT to say all a girl ever thinks about is her future wardrobe and dates. This is not true at all. If I asked these exact questions with every guy I met I’d be in an even more complex state of mind.
She needs your help, but she forgets to ask. Multi-thinking is a habit that is constantly occurring. It occurs in the subconscious and conscious. It’s exhausting. If you would be a gentleman and lay out your intentions-whatever they may be- right away, she will be eternally grateful. She’ll only have to think and inquire about what you haven’t brought up. Her brain will be less likely to explode. Girlfriends have trouble assisting their girlfriends think about one thing at a time. It’s nearly impossible.
If you’re still with me, AWESOME.
As my friend McKenzie would say, “Does that make you feel…good about everything?”
Since you have the enviable ability to think things through slowly and thoroughly, and even one thought at a time, let this marinate your thought process for the next 24 hours.
P.S. I’m writing a post just for the girls too. What do they need to know about guys? How are waffles distinct?
While watching a movie….’what am I fixing for dinner tomorrow, I really need to return that phone call, I hope I didn’t dry my son’s favorite shirt in the dryer, I wonder why the price of everything is going up at Costco, did I give the baby his Tylenol?, why can’t I lose 5 pounds, should I cut my hair short?.’…………………………….